We like to use lines like “you don’t owe anyone anything” to get out of dealing with emotionally charged situations. Lines like that are designed to validate poor behavior. No, we don’t owe anyone anything. It’s not really about that. The path to finding love shouldn’t be paved with those left scorched and shattered by …
I keep waiting for something to happen. Anything. A glimmer of hope to guide me out of the dark corridor I find myself fumbling through. Everyone always talks about the door that closes in order for another to open. But what they fail to mention is the wait in the hallway. Doors don’t just open …
Stop giving other people your unsolicited love advice. In fact, stop listening to other people’s love advice. I know you’re afraid of falling that deep again. Of feeling that stupid again.Or, of feeling that broken again. I know you think if you just read that self-help book, or listen to that dating coach, or set …
I’ve always wanted to be enough for someone. A girl worthy of moving mountains for. A girl radiant enough to stand out amongst the crowded room. A girl worth the pains of long distance. A girl worthy of time. And attention. And affection. And LOVE. A girl beautiful enough. Smart enough. Accomplished enough. Funny enough. …
The thing about healing that people fail to mention is that making the right decision can be just as painful as staying in your toxic behavior. Walking away from those that no longer serve you isn’t the power move they make it out to be. The reality is sometimes those who no longer serve you …